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IT’S OVER. “My thoughts were racing, I felt everything at once, from anger to pain to sadness to emptiness, and I couldn’t sort it out. Figuratively speaking, I felt alone in the middle of the open stormy ocean. Unable to drown, but equally unable to swim. Those 3 words that started the whole mess are both the worst and the best thing that has happened to me in my life so far.” Nicole talks about her powerlessness at the end of her relationship and how she learned to love herself. In this article, you’ll learn her 3 personal tips for seeing a break-up as an opportunity.<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

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A break-up as an opportunity? Nicole’s challenge for self-love<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

“My heart was ripped out and trampled on. Suddenly nothing was worth anything.<\/strong> Every word said, every deed, every look, every touch, every gift, simply everything was worthless. The ground was pulled out from under my feet and I fell into a deep black hole. <\/strong>I somehow tried to understand what had just happened. My heart was on fire. The tears were flowing”, this is how Nicole (30, from Basel) describes to us what happened to her at the beginning of the year. However, if you find yourself in an unhealthy<\/strong>, so-called toxic relationship and don’t know how to get out of it, let Karin’s experience inspire you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Standing in front of nothing with a broken heart<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

“In one fell swoop, the love of my life and our shared home were gone<\/strong>. And this despite the fact that I couldn’t have had a better start to 2020. We were on holiday over New Year’s Eve, in a pub, had a great time, toasted at midnight<\/strong>, told each other how much we loved each other<\/strong> and were looking forward to the new year together. Only 4 days later<\/strong> (back home) I was told: >>IT\u00b4S OVER<<<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know what it feels like to have a broken heart and therefore see no perspective. <\/strong>I know what it feels like to look for answers and not get any. I know what it feels like to be all alone and all down. I know what it feels like to search for meaning and not find any. I know how it feels to feel worthless and discarded.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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