{"id":22782,"date":"2021-01-13T13:18:00","date_gmt":"2021-01-13T12:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intombi.de\/blog\/why-me-this-is-how-you-can-cope-with-a-difficult-diagnosis\/"},"modified":"2022-05-03T13:31:44","modified_gmt":"2022-05-03T11:31:44","slug":"why-me-this-is-how-you-can-cope-with-a-difficult-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intombi.de\/en\/blog\/why-me-this-is-how-you-can-cope-with-a-difficult-diagnosis\/","title":{"rendered":"Why me? This is how you can cope with a difficult diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<br>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/intombi.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Martina-quer.jpg\" alt=\"Martina is wearing a darkred shirt with lace. Her dark hairs is falling  over her shoulders. She is standing in front of a grey wall and smiles into the camera. \" class=\"wp-image-20345\" width=\"768\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/intombi.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Martina-quer.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/intombi.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Martina-quer-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/intombi.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Martina-quer-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption><em>\u201eMeasure your lifetime; it&#8217;s not enough for so many things.\u201c<\/em> (Lucius Annaeus Seneca)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<br>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Martina (30 from Nuremberg) was diagnosed with acute lymphatic leukemia when she was five years old, and with skin cancer when she was 16 and 21. The 30-year-old is now in perfect health and would like to help people today to find a way to heal physically after a shock diagnosis.<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;Many people think it goes on after cancer diagnose as it was before,&#8221; <\/strong>but she knows this is nearly impossible. To find healing after her serious illness diagnoses, she asked herself what the <strong>meaning of her life<\/strong> was:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\"><strong>         1.  <em>what would I do if money was no object?<\/em><\/strong><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\"><strong>         2. <em> what fulfils you deeply?<\/em><\/strong><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\"><strong>         3. <em> how could I make the world a little better?<\/em><\/strong><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<br>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How did your environment react to your illness and did your interpersonal relationships changed?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;It was a shock diagnosis. <\/strong>It changed not only my life, but also the lives of my entire social environment. I spent <strong>the first two years as an inpatient,<\/strong> which also meant organizing a lot, keeping visiting hours.  My <strong>interpersonal relationships<\/strong> have changed a lot, it makes you learn to appreciate every second with <strong>loved ones<\/strong> more. <strong>Other people&#8217;s lives keep spinning, you unfortunately also lose a lot of social contacts,&#8221; <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/mrs_martina_\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Martina <\/a>tells us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<br><br>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-cgb-infobox infobox\"><h3><strong>intombi for girls \u2013 <strong>never miss any news again<\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<br>\n\n\n\n<p>In our <strong>#girlsforgirls online passion magazine<\/strong>, we present exciting and super strong young women, projects and important tips about a passion every week. 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Our <strong>psyche <\/strong>goes through a lot during that time, whether <strong>consciously <\/strong>or <strong>unconsciously<\/strong>. That makes it all the more important to deal with it. Also the <strong>optical appearance<\/strong> changes a lot, for example the loss of hair or strong water retention. All this has a significant influence on our psyche. I am firmly convinced that we can only <strong>accept the disease by giving our lives a meaning for ourselves and for others<\/strong>,&#8221; she tells us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<br>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote has-border-color\" style=\"border-color:#f78da7\"><blockquote><p>You don&#8217;t have to do this alone, we are stronger as a team.<\/p><cite>Martina<\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<br>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What advice would you give to young women who have recently received a diagnosis from their doctor that turns their life upside down?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;First and foremost, get help. <\/strong>There are many voluntary associations and, thanks to social media, an incredibly <strong>strong community<\/strong> on the subject of cancer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is also<strong> important to pay attention to your psyche<\/strong> and already ask yourself about the meaning of your life during the disease. I <strong>wish all women <\/strong>who receive the shock diagnosis a lot of strength. <strong>You can do it!<\/strong>&#8220;, Martina advices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<br>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>From one day to the next, Martina&#8217;s entire life has changed<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Shock diagnosis pulls the rug out from beneath your feet. &#8220;<strong>The important thing is that you define the meaning of your life during this difficult time.<\/strong> A meaning that serves and helps others. A meaning that is elementarily important for you and <strong>with which you can identify<\/strong>.&#8221; Do you have any questions about this topic? <strong>Feel free to ask them in the in the comments.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you are wondering how you can help<\/strong>, we highly recommend our article &#8220;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/intombi.de\/blog\/eine-zukunft-dank-lebensretter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">A future thanks to lifesavers<\/a>&#8220;. <\/strong> There you can learn how you can save lives as a donor to the DKMS, for example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<br><br>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/intombi.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Martina.jpg\" alt=\"Martina is wearing a red dress with a withe flower pattern. 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